Sorry for the wait.

Hey! Long time no post, I know. I'm sorry I have been m.i.a lately and how unfair for me to leave you hanging after my first post. Well other than some computer issues, I really was trying to think of what subject my next post should be. Considering this is a new project I am fully aware that people aren't going to just throw their problems in my face and expect reliable advice. So my promise to you is to entertain you with posts until you feel comfortable enough to share whats going on in your life with me. 

Today, someone and their amazing personality splashed me with some inspiration. The year is soon coming to an end and its about that time people start thinking of their new years resolution. Why don't we try something new? Look back at the year of 2011 and think, what are 10 things you feel you accomplished. Write it down on a little piece of paper and keep it somewhere where it can be seen often. Hopefully there are going to be some killer things on that list, but most importantly I want you to look at that list and just imagine the greater things your can do in 2012. 

I want you to keep this list close because some days a really ugly part of us surfaces and we tend to become extremely hard on ourselves. We have the tendency to think because everything in our lives isn't going as planned we are a "failure". By looking at this list hopefully you can shove that feeling inside of you far far away to a place where you can control it. 

I don't know about them Mayans and their predictions about 2012, but I know I have a lot in store for me this year. So let's bid adieu to 2011 and welcome 2012 with open arms and open minds. 

I want to wish you all a very Happy New Year. 

Be Safe,

Tobi

The First One.

As a young woman in my early 20's I realized a lot of people my age have absolutely no clue as to what they want to do with their lives. Luckily I am embarking on a journey that I have dreamed about for along time and that I truly believe in. Nothing could make me happier than succeeding in this dream I have, BUT,I know that Plan B sometimes needs to be distinguished. I was literally in the shower one day and Plan B sprung itself on me.

Through out my life I have been able to be the other half of some pretty solid friendships. If I died tomorrow, one thing that would be said about me after I was gone, is that I was a great friend. Friendship to me is extremely important and is always cherished. With that said I have some pretty great friends, and even better than that, I was blessed with four BEST friends. Each friend is different in her own unique way and fortunately four girls means four different outlooks on a situation. Whether it be time difference or an awkward situation, sometimes I wish I could just go online, type to someone what is going on, and get a response. This is were my awesome Plan B came into play. I wanted to create a website where I could literally go for someone to tell me that yes, I am being totally ridiculous or that I am completely right. Sometimes you need an unbiased opinion to really help you see it in a different light.

When it comes to relationships, I was blessed with someone(I'm going say amazing but that doesn't even really cover it) amazing. I am by no means saying, I am a relationship expert based on my knowledge of being in a relationship but with four best friends, I think I've probably seen or heard it all. I want to help other people through my previous experiences. I want people to feel that they could always have somewhere to go to at any time for some advice. 

All that you really need to know about me is in this First blog post, so that this site stays completely anonymous, I'm going by Tobi. This blog is in it's first stages of development and will probably have changes here and there but the basic goal remains the same : Give Advice to those who ask for it.